Common question eh. Especially for those who are very
heartbroken and is
very much in pain..
sigh..I read an article about this in a magazine somewhere...
(it's a boring nerdy intelectual magazine - i forgot the title already;p)Here's wat it says..
'
Time is a series of events; so each new event flows into the next but with a series of steps (horizons) which we perceive. We have a choice. We can flow with these or choose to change these horizons. We can let things just happen and go along with what happens; as in the song 'que sera sera'. This is when we submit to what happens; and let time do to us what it will. In the context of time healing; it will heal the wounds slowly by changing how we see what has happened, and by bringing eventually a new and fresh means of happiness. The opposite is when we choose to make the best of a situation and look towards the future. To make the future what we want it to be. This way we are more in control but the risk is self-reliance. In this sense, we can either make the wounds heal slower or faster depending on the steps we take in doing so.'
Well...I believe time exists because distance exists.
If you think about it, really, niether of them do. They are used more so in comparison to scales. Big or little. Its the difference between one piece of matter and another. Think about it. The only reason you have to walk to the fridge...is because your not big enough to already be at the fridge. The "smaller" you are, the more time it takes to travel a distance. Smaller being compared to....what already was.(the fridge...or a point ) And bigger in the same respect. Speed is the ability to cover "Larger" quantities of ground/distance in comparison to the vessels size. People call a remote control car which can do thirty mph..fast. It is compared to other remote control cars, but not in the grande schemata of things...
(sorry for the lame n blunt analogy, I'm not that good in flowery poetry or stuff like that;p)Time allows a process.
Step by step.
One foot in front of the other.
And
clearly healing is a process...
so does time heals all wounds? this is true, in a sense..
Time itself does not heal the wound, but rather the one who is wounded.
Only he or she has the power to tell one's self that it is no longer and issue and has obtained some kind of closure and move on from the incident. Time, taken by the affected for closure, is what heals the wound...i guess. But then..like physical wounds...they're bound to be scars kan. And i suppose scars are similar like memories.. something u leave behind.
Thats why some people don't heal from their pain. Coz they keep picking their scars and disrupt the process of healing..
Gosh, I can't believe what i learnt in basic pathology can be applied to ethereal subjects such as this...hehe...
But I'm sure
Time Does heal. It allows opportunity for a process. Healing is a process.... healing is a process...
(Sumting like the penaakulan mantik thingy we used to learn back in form 3 eh..)Whether it takes ten years...or .10 seconds. Time does heal..kan?
Which doesnt mean death isnt imminent:)
I hope my healing process won't take long.
Hope my heart's strong enuf for that...
sigh.
